Stay STRONG!

“Twinkle, I just tried to commit suicide by cutting my hand”.

Guys, I want to ask a simple question to you: “Why did you cut your hand?” Can someone please answer this question for me? Ok so none of you can! Now who have tried this must be having various reasons like:

·         I did it because I saw it in a movie; or

·         Its today’s trend girl; or

·         My parents don’t care about me/ I’m done with my life; or

·         My love/crush/Girlfriend/Boyfriend just left me; Etc.

So these are your cheesy reasons. Dude, tell me why did you cut your hand? Is it a new type of tattoo? Well if it is, then it seems awful, isn’t beautiful at all and it’s MEANINGLESS! And how proudly you tell all your friends about it! Believe me, YOU DID NOT WIN A WAR! Those are just some wicked, nasty red lines all over your beautiful hand!

Now let’s talk about your reasons.

1.       You tried to commit suicide because you saw it in a movie. Guys, we all know “Bollywood”; just to add drama, a bit of spice to the movie, they show this stuff. Do you really think “they cut their hand or something”? 

2.       Today’s Trend? Since when did you start following “the trends”? Well today’s trend in Delhi is to bring 99% in 12^th boards, why don’t you try that? Your parents would so be proud of you.

3.       Darling, your parents are always there for you. They guide you through the right path. They just want you to be happy, and be focused to your aim. And you are done with your life? Like have you failed or something? If it’s the exam problem then I have something for you! Oh no idiot, not the question paper, it’s a quote for you “Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter, try again. Fail again, Fail BETTER!” –Samuel Becket

Don’t ever give up on yourself. One can do many miracles.

4.       Now the last reason and quite general reason. So what if that guy/girl left you? Did they love you truly? If yes, then they wouldn't have ditched you. And you tried to commit suicide for a person who doesn't even care about you? Now that’s lunacy.  Don’t feel bad if someone rejects you. People usually reject and ignore things because they can’t afford them. Ignore the haters, there are many people who love you, like your friends, family and don’t’ worry you will soon meet that special person in your life; you just got to wait for that perfect time.

Now, we all know the King of Bollywood, Shah Rukh Khan, he was rejected by Gauri twice, but did he cut his hand or tried to commit suicide? No of course he did not, he waited for her. And now he is happily married to her and has 3 children with her.

Stay Strong

"Sometimes it looks like everything is falling apart and all you do fails, but you have to stay strong. Night is always darkest before the dawn and your life is just the same, the hard times will pass, everything will get better and the sun will shine brighter than ever."

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.”