Stop the Comparison!

Why do we compare?

This is some question going on my mind since years. We compare the rich and the poor, the fat and the thin, the tall and the short, the girl and the boy, etc. 

Some really dumb-asses compares themselves with others. I think that’s the most dumbest comparison. Dude like aren’t you happy with what you are? Are you ashamed of yourself?

And the most vile comparison is that of a girl and a boy. I don’t know why this society prefers male over female. 

Society has many dumb reasons to their preference of males over females:

1.  Men can only carry the family name forward.
   Well now women too have got the right. Its women’s choice, it’s over them, if they want to change their surname after marriage or not. And many of the females prefer not changing their surname and they carry their family name till the end.
   
2. Men are stronger.
   Talking about strength? Physical strength or emotional? Well women are as physically strong as men; it depends on the ability not strength.
   And emotionally I think women are the strongest, they give up all of their dreams for their family and never protest about it. And a woman’s first precedence is always her family.  Even woman carries the biggest pain for 9 months in her belly, and goes through the most unbearable conditions. Men cannot give what a woman can to this world. Woman is the one who give lives, who give life to a newborn. A strong woman is the lifeline of her family. She carries within her the power to endure pain and the courage to sacrifice. She has the power to create and nurture life. She is indeed an epitome of love and sacrifice.
   
   A woman should be strong; she should be the kind of woman that when her feet hit the floor, each morning the devil says “Oh crap! She’s up.”
   
   “A strong woman don’t play victim, don’t make themselves look pitiful and don’t point fingers. They stand and they deal.”
    
3. Men are the only ones who can bring pride to the family and can earn for the family.
   So is the society saying that couples who don’t have a son don’t earn money and their livelihood is dull? See now the era has changed, now women are not staying locked in those four walled houses, they are going out, taking up different streams and jobs. Women have come up really well in every sector. They are not only bringing pride to their family, but this nation too. And women nowadays are more conscious than men about having a career of their own. So it’s not only men who can bring pride or who can earn for the family, women can too. 

“Respect a female because:

You can feel her innocence in the form of a daughter

You can feel her care in the form of a sister

You can feel her warmth in the form of a friend

You can feel her passion in the form of a beloved

You can feel her dedication in the form of a wife

You can feel her divinity in the form of a mother

You can feel her blessing in the form of a grandmother

Yet she is so tough too.

Her heart is so tender, so naughty, so charming, so sharing, so melodious,

She is a WOMAN, she is LIFE!”

She is a woman, respect her,

She gave you this life, don’t you kill her.

Stop the comparison, it’s of waste,

She is a woman, not a piece of waste.